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The Un-Crappy Wife Reset
Seven days to feel like lovers again — not logistics partners.
A private, guided workbook to rekindle playfulness, rebuild your confidence, flirt like you mean it, actually listen, plan a real date, and talk about desire without pressure. Fifteen to thirty minutes a day. No therapist voice. No trust falls.
One-time purchase
$27
7-day digital workbook (online, printable)
- 7 guided days, 15–30 minutes each
- Step-by-step exercises for every day
- 21 journaling prompts
- Bonita's cheeky sidebars throughout
- A gentle, no-pressure desire conversation guide
- Private online library access + printable pages
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Here's exactly what you get
- 01
Decide what YOU want
A ten-minute 'I want…' sprint that surprises most women. You're the client today.
- 02
Uncover fun
Two lists — what you used to love together and what you've never tried — and one under-an-hour plan.
- 03
Notice something real
Detective work: three specific admirable things, and one said out loud.
- 04
Flirt & compliment sincerely
One no-logistics text, one honest compliment, one move from Bonita's toolkit — at your comfort level.
- 05
The date you plan
Pick the night, the place, the dress code, and one rule. Planning is a love letter.
- 06
Discuss desire — mutually, no pressure
A gentle conversation guide for both of you. Anyone can pass on any question.
- 07
Repeat the connection habit
Keep the two small habits that worked. A pilot light, not fireworks.
"Desire you're pressured into isn't desire. It's a chore in nicer underwear. This week is about what you both actually want."
— Bonita, from Day 6
The honest fine print
This is a self-guided workbook, not therapy, counseling, or medical advice, and it can't guarantee results. Everything in it assumes consent, mutual respect, and safety. If you're in a crisis or an unsafe relationship, please reach out to a qualified professional.
Reset FAQs
What format is the Reset?
A 7-day digital workbook you read in your private online library and can print. Each day takes about 15–30 minutes.
Do I need my partner to participate?
No. Most days start with you — what you want, what you notice, how you show up. A few exercises invite your partner in, always as an offer, never an ambush.
Is this a guarantee my marriage will improve?
No one honest can guarantee that. The Reset gives you structure, prompts, and a nudge. What happens next depends on the two of you.
Is this sex advice?
It's about attraction, playfulness, and connection. Day 6 is a gentle, no-pressure conversation about desire — for both of you. Nothing in it asks you to do anything you don't want to do.
Can I get a refund?
Yes. If it is not for you, ask within 30 days of buying through the contact form and you get a full refund, no explanation required. Access to the workbook is removed once refunded.
Is the 21-Day Marriage Makeover included?
No — it doesn't exist yet. It's coming later, and nobody is being charged for it now.
One-time purchase
$27
7-day digital workbook (online, printable)
- 7 guided days, 15–30 minutes each
- Step-by-step exercises for every day
- 21 journaling prompts
- Bonita's cheeky sidebars throughout
- A gentle, no-pressure desire conversation guide
- Private online library access + printable pages
No payment is active. You cannot be charged.
When sales open: secure checkout by Stripe, delivered to your private library